This Holiday Season looked bright and promising as we looked forward to seeing the kids and family. Things changed when I got a call from my Dad telling me his sister was in the hospital and that it looked very grim. He and my mom started the drive to Fresno to see her but an hour into the two hour drive my cousin called and said my Aunt Eloise had died.
What was most difficult for all of us was that it happened so suddenly and ended so abruptly. My Dad never had the chance to say goodbye and I could tell that really bothered him. The loss of our Aunt was tough and arranging the service and burial proved challenging. The family struggled to find a facility for the service and burial as most churches were unvailable or short staffed due to the holdidays. In the end, with a lot of blood, sweat and tears the arrangements were made and the services set for Friday and the burial for Saturday.
I looked up on the internet to see what was written in the obituary for her in the Fresno Bee. It was very simple and basically said she was a homemaker. There was no flash, no glory and no fan fair. When we arrived at the service on Friday night there was an oddity to the number of cars in the parking lot. My dad had mentioned that finding a church to hold a 1000 people was a major problem. I thought a 1000 people for a homemaker seemed a bit of a stretch.
The place was packed with people in the main hall, the balcony, the atrium and some were even standing outside. At the Funeral the next day, there were 500 people who showed up for that too. Who was this homemaker and what did she do that drew all these people together? It was true that my Aunt was a homemaker, but what was not mentioned was her constant dedication to serving others. She labored on behalf of worthy causes like leading community service activities, working with her church and volunteering for Special Olympics.
She was a homemaker who raised 5 boys and with my uncle built a foundation that focused on giving more to others with no expectations of any rewards other than the smiles on the faces of those who benefited from their labor. My Uncle was very composed and spirited when speaking about her. He said something that stuck in my mind, he said do it more and do it often. He was referring to saying I love you to your loved ones as you never know when you wont have a chance to do it again. I am sure my father could relate to what my uncle said.
My Aunt devoted her life to her husband, her family and those in need. She was a homemaker who touched many people’s lives by doing the little things day in and day out. Serving others with love and bringing joy and comfort in whatever way she could. Her attitude was contagious and she was able to rally people around many causes to make a difference in people’s lives.
You may be asking how this pertains to business. The greatness of companies is based on the human element. For without people a business in no more than a hollow shell. People give a business life and the opportunity for greatness. It is about attitude, heart, passion and wanting to make a difference. If my aunt, the homemaker could do it, just think what a business could do with an army of dedicated homemakers.
Posted under Employees, General, Leadership
This post was written by Fred J. Cuen on December 28, 2008
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